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Hi All

Reeva needs some posting, so drop me a line if you're keen and need a healer...

Hey guys

Reeva *really* needs some posting action so please...drop me a line if you're keen

Hey all.

I'm looking for people to drive Reeva [at RBW] nuts a little, be they RBW people or visitors both.

I also have a specific plot in mind for her overwork catching up to her...if anyone is willing to be upchucked on [insert evil laugh]

C.

Sadly, what you're experiencing is a pretty common fallout for the friends and family of addicts. There is a point at which you had to save yourself from their crazy, and those relationships get broken in the process. It's ok to feel as you do. It's something you can work through as and when as you go forward. Don't stress about it now.

Don't pressure yourself to 'have' to be anything right now, including happy. Happy will come with healing as you want/need it. You don't have to be anything for anyone's sake... even your own. Just keep soldiering on as you are... you're doing great by the sounds of it.

I'm going to leave an app recommendation here, something I wouldn't normally do, but if you or anyone on the board ever feel the need to reach out but aren't comfy doing so with family or friends at that moment, it's a great service, safe, supportive and can be very cathartic. It's called 7 cups of tea. If it sounds like it would help anyone, have a look at it for some more details.

You really do seem to be making it... keep on keeping on, you''re doing great.

And have a hug, cos you seem like you need it.

I'd like to get -slowly- back into posting. If anyone wants to tackle Reeva, please give me a poke.

Thanks all- I've sent starts

And extra thanks, Anika, for the sweet compliment!

I really need to get writing again

Anyone of mine are on the table!

C.

Ha

Thanks Dudes. Not really one for b-days but it's nice to be remembered!

Have a great one, you!

C.

I must say, whilst I agree in general with the sentiment of this post [and do hope I have not been guilty of transgressions] I do have to add:

The person who bails from a thread mid-posting, does not inform their co-posters with so much as a 'life sucks right now, back when it doesn't' *and yet* has enough time to fire off a complaint to the BOD here over people asking if their o.k and if they'll be returning in the foreseeable future to finish a thread they committed to may perhaps also need a small lesson in courtesy?

If you're being pursued after an informative message and an LOA that's one thing, and pursuing across multiple networks is excessive. Being horrendously insulted because someone asks what's happened when you disappear without warning is another!

I'm just glad you're using email proofs to make these judgements, because I see a lot of potential for 'delicate flowers' who expect people to mind-read to dump well-meaning people in the unmentionable otherwise.

I have to stop in here and say the Canon Dragon is right. I had a club ruined for me because of people's propensity to do this.

All hail Canon Dragon!

I am around and alive, if anyone wishes posts with my limited crew

Ha! Belated, but happy birthday!


C.

I'm just gonna grin, cackle and bait you with cookies at this point ;)

Nope :(